Scissor-less in Columbia, Tennessee

Dear Two Cents, I care about the school in my community, but I get so many pleas to go through my garbage to collect “Boxtops for Education,” it makes me want to move to the woods. Is there something wrong with me that I don’t want to participate in this program? Everyone says, “It’s just like cutting money out of a box.” But I don’t want to look for special “boxtop” items when I’m shopping and I don’t want to keep their packaging around the house. It’s messy enough already. (And, if you’re wondering, I don’t cut coupons either.)

ONE CENT:

Dear Scissorless,

I personally love to cut out Box Tops, even though part of me realizes that writing a $10 or $20 check to the school at the beginning of the year would save me a lot of hassle! I say you give the “BoxTop job” to the kids.  If they’re school age, they can probably use scissors pretty well.  You can tell them the BoxTops are for their school and when everyone collects, it adds up to hundreds of dollars.  Sell it hard, make sure they buy-in and since you don’t have to do any cutting, go and get yourself a manicure!

TWO CENT:

Dear Scissorless,

Just don't  do it.  There are enough causes in this world you can feel manipulated into joining that you have to decide for yourself what you want to participate in.  I remember being at NYU and walking past a table of students imploring others to join the cause of protecting some group in a faraway place.  They were so passionate and dismissive of people who walked on by, without signing their petition or opening their pocketbook.  However, we shouldn't let other people dictate our charitable decisions. Should you support your local school? Probably.  But I have a suspicion that you aren't the type of person characterized by apathy towards your kids' school.  Heck, you're reading this site for a reason.

So decide in advance which service projects you'd like to tackle and what charities you'd like to support -- and do it joyfully!

There is a great scripture about this, which can no doubt inspire you whatever your religious beliefs:

Let each one give as he has made up his own mind and purposed in his heart, not reluctantly or sorrowfully or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.

 

 

 

 

Nancy French

Nancy French is an author, commentator, and mother. Her next book, about the year her husband spent in Iraq is due out July 4, 2011. Connect with her on Facebook at www.facebook.com/NancyAndersonFrench and follow her on Twitter at https://twitter.com/nancyafrench.
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