Connecting as a Family at Halloween
Holidays always are a double edged sword. Expectations, lots of sugar, and too many social obligations sometimes steal the joy from even the most fun days. How to combat this? SixSeeds asked mother of four from Boston for some tips on how to connect to your community and your family this Halloween!
Celebrate as a Family
● Trick-or-Treat Wind Down Party. Halloween gives lots of excuses for families and friends to spend time together. Last year, we only trick or treated a few streets before retiring to our backyard, relaxing around a cracking firepit while eating homemade chili. It was the perfect end, and the kids were full of stories to share about the night. Neighbors came over to join us, and it was memorable.
● Kid Friendly Halloween Book. We love the Mercy Watson book series by Kate DiCamillo. The one where Mercy Watson dresses as a Princess for Halloween is perfect to read aloud for a silly (non frightening) Halloween tale.
● Safety First. Pumpkin carving makes me nervous with the youngster, but they want in on their older siblings’ fun too. So, one Halloween the kids decorated with pieces from the Mr. Potato Head toy (making it even better, they even have special Halloween pieces these days). It merely required my husband to drill holes where the children marked on a pumpkin the spots for eyes, nose, ears, etc.
● Home-make costumes. Before purchasing a new costume, figure out if one can be created from the pile of leftover dress-up clothes or from one’s imagination. It took me a few years to learn this cost-saving secret. It’s not really about costume, but the cool accessories. Last year, my eight-year-old daughter created her costume using pieces we already had around the house. What she really wanted was to spray paint her blond hair red and wear make-up and gaudy jewelry. I got off cheap. It just took a little imagination and a few “fashion shows” with my daughter as the runway model as we pieced it together, but I’m glad we didn’t just go out and buy a costume. That would have been the easiest, but not the lesson I was hoping to teach.
● Bring Everyone to the Table Breakfast. In our household, nothing pulls us together like a yummy, lazy weekend breakfast. It sets the tone for a family-filled day when we sit down to eat together without the pressure to rush out the door like we so often do during the week. Check out a recipe that might help your family savor the season, in the sidebar on the upper right hand side of this page!
Celebrate as a Community
● Scare Your Neighbors. Have you heard of “BOOING YOUR NEIGHBORS?” Here is a quick overview. The weeks leading up to Halloween, you “boo” 2-3 neighbors by leaving a boo poem (and sometimes a Halloween treat or tchotchke ) and a sign (a 8.5” x 11” piece of paper) that says “BOO!” in large letters. The poem tells the recipient that they have been “boo’d” and they need to post the BOO! sign to their front door and “boo” 2-3 other neighbors. It is fun to watch the boo spread from house to house with “boo” signs being posted everywhere. (Visit www.beenbooed.com for poem options).
● Pre-Trick or Treating Party. Kids really love seeing each other dressed up and it’s the best time to capture the Halloween experience on camera. Host a simple Halloween parade before trick or treating to see friends and neighbors all dressed up and the kids can simply parade around the lawn. It doesn’t need to be an elaborate party, the kids will be thrilled to see each other. If you want to kick it up an notch, throw in some pizza and drinks before the treating fun begins.
Jill Abrahamsen is the mother of four and lives in the Boston area.
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