How to Adopt -- Ten Steps

10 STEPS TO ADOPT

A Child is Waiting: A Step By Step Guide to Adoption, a free handbook provided by the Dave Thomas Foundation, helps to clarify the terminology, responds to frequently asked questions, and guides potential adoptive parents through 10 steps to adopt, including:

1.    Decide what type of adoption to pursue: do some self-research and understand adoption and your willingness to accept, love and commit unconditionally and permanently to a child.

2.    Learn about the cost to adopt and the resources available to assist with the expenses, including adoption subsidies, tax credits and employer benefits; adopting from foster care costs very little.

3.    Investigate and select an adoption agency: research public and private agencies to understand their processes, policies and practices.

4.    Work with the adoption agency to complete an application and any required paperwork, attend meetings and orientation sessions, network with other adoptive parents and ask questions.

5.    Complete a home study and any required adoption preparation classes; learn as much as you can about the dynamics of adoption, childhood development and the special issues and experiences of children in foster care.

6.    Begin the matching process with a child or sibling group of children, determine what age child you are looking for and how flexible you are in growing your family, learn as much as you can about the child and background of the children with whom you are matched.

7.    Prepare for the child’s arrival:  amend health insurance policies, obtain original birth certificates, secure new social security numbers, finalize school enrollment, negotiate adoption subsidies, make your home child-friendly and support children already in the home.

8.    Bring the child home:  petition the court to adopt, understand the legal process and work with the adoption agency.

9.    Finalize the adoption in court: adoption is a legal process and the beginning of your new family -- celebrate!

10.    Take advantage of post-adoption services and resources, from parent support groups and professional services to employer-based benefits.

by Rita Soronen, Executive Director
Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption