Adoption: The Christopher Family
Tell us about yourself, spouse where you live what you do ect.
We are Kerry and Desiree Christopher, married 16 years originally from Ohio but now in Northern VA.
I am a happy stay at home mom, Kerry works in Public Relations. We have six children ranging in age from 14 down to 1.
When, why did you decide to adopt?
We have always wanted to adopt. We had a difficult time trying to get pregnant and had researched adoption before our first child was born. We knew that some day regardless of how many biological children we had we would adopt from China.
Do you have bio children?
Yes, we have three. Hannah is 14, Caleb is 12 and Jake is 10.
Whom did you adopt and from where?
We adopted Hope from China's special needs program in September 2006, Grace also from the special needs program in August 2008 and Rachel in July of 2010. We would love to adopt from China again some day. There are so many children that need families.
What was their given name and did you rename them, why?
Hope was named Wu Feng Mei, Grace Xin Jei and Rachel was Wei Shu Fei. We did keep part of their Chinese names as their middle name. We believe this is an important part of who they are and will some day appreciate that we kept a small part of their Chinese heritage. Our middle daughter also prefers to be called by her Chinese name.
What has been the most surprising aspect of adoption?
How easy it was to accept and love a child not born to me. I had instant love for my daughter's the moment they were placed in my arms.
What has been the most disappointing?
Family not understanding why we would adopt.
What has been the most gratifying?
Our biological children's ability to love and accept our adopted children as siblings with no questions asked. It was instant for them as well. I know it isn't always like this, adding to a family who already has children, but for us we just gelled.
Did any agency, organization or family help you get through the process emotionally, financially or other wise?
All of our agencies were very helpful and supportive, which is very important. Without the support of an agency you really have no clue what is going on in an international adoption.
We also used Kingdom Kids adoption ministries to help raise money for our adoption fees.
What advice would you give others who are thinking about adoption?
Just jump in. It is so worth it. The rewards of adopting a child who needs you is immense. But, do research and connect with other's who are going through the same process. You will need emotional support.
You might also try keeping a blog, it helps to chronicle your journey. Plus the online community can be a huge support.
We do keep a blog.
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Thank you for supporting your friend's adoption.
Best Wishes!
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"Pure and undefiled religion is this: to care for widows and orphans in their distress..." James 1:27
God bless you and may many more step up to His call.
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Thank you for helping my dear friends bring home their daughter waiting in China. Hope many, many, many comment to help bring her home.
God's Speed Liliana.
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My husband helped me to think back and I realized that I'd experienced the same feelings with our biological children too. Love came with time...one day at a time. Love ALWAYS began for me as a choice and then the feelings followed.
I just wanted to say this in case anyone else is reading and struggling with guilt feelings. We just brought home our fourth child...2nd one from China and I am SO glad I have learned the love lesson already or I would be devastated!
Love often comes softly :)
Thanks for sharing and for blessing Liliana!
love,
Holly
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You answered your own question. "Jesus is the Provider". It isn't about what we think is possible based on what we see (being a realist). It is about faith in what He can do...based on what we do not see. The bigger your bucket of faith, the more blessings that can rain down upon you. We are called to adopt these childen. It is something we pray about before stepping foward in the faith that He will provide all that we need versus all that we want.
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We're hoping to adopt a child sometime soon too!
Layla :-)
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Great Article! Thanks for sharing! I cant imagine my life without my sweet little china doll =]
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There are many many hoops to jump through when adopting. Every corner of your life is examined by local, state and federal government and if it is international adoption, by the foreign government as well. One of the things they look very closely at is if you can afford to provide for another child. If one income was not adequate to care for another child Deseree would never have been approved for another child. I hope this helps put your mind at ease.
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Working together we can bring so many more children home. They all deserve a family of their own!!!
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bows and a cheer competition and she came running over to say "hi" auntie. Kinley had a blast filling up her bag with bows...she's so cute I couldn't charge her mom so she was my bow model all day. Many blessing to all of you who give these children a better life and blessings to the children who enrich our lives.
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She is beautiful in her pictures,...and she reminds me of a baby doll. She has the cutest lil lips. lol
Safe Travels bringing your new daughter home!! : )
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God love you for your amazing big hearts!!
I will never understand why 'family' and others do not understand and support these amazing adoptions?!?! Its plain ignorance and more education may help open their hearts. I feel for you and please as difficult it may be, please never allow nonsupport from family bring you down. You know in your hearts and in GOD'S heart that you are blessing these babies and providing them with a family of their very own, and unconditional love & acceptance.
Safe travels bringing your Baby Love, Lilliana HOME!!!! : )
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Thank-you for sharing the beautiful story of your family and your passion for adopt yet another daughter. I have an adopted daughter (12 yrs) from Xi'an China. May blessing abound for you and your family. You are an inspiration.....Heidi, Boulder, Colorado
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